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Right Now, Someone Out There is Admiring You, Greatly.

They might not have said it. In fact, they probably kept it to themselves—“don’t want to seem like a creepy ass stalker.” But no matter who you are, you have changed things for someone. You have made...

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You Are Stronger Than You Were Yesterday

Hear ye, hear ye, let it be known that I, Ash Ambirge, am officially in love with the SWEAT app. (If you also spend too much time at the computer like a hunchback homie, listen up!) For the longest...

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24 Ways to Love Yourself Fiercely + Bravely—Even When You’re Feeling Like a...

Loving yourself means: The courage to reject their opinion. A kind, but firm: “This is what I want.” Remembering to be a mother to yourself, every single day. Asking more questions: What do I really...

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If You Feel Like a Big, Fat Imposter Who Doesn’t Deserve Anything and Worries...

I’m writing this from a place that could almost be mistaken for the Italian countryside, were I not surrounded by lizards and toucans and bullfrogs the size of a fucking dinosaur. Rather, I am high up...

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Listen: Do What You Crave Without the Guilt. Travel to Italy. Enroll in That...

My almost-mother-in-law gets really fucking nervous when I travel—especially when I bomb off to South America for a month by myself to drink ALL THE WINE and celebrate ALL THE BOOK DEALS. But she...

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Lost Yourself in the Pursuit of “Big and Fucking Impressive?” I GOT A BOOK...

For those of us who have found ourselves stuck in a cycle of hustling to prove that our life is good enough, over and over again. For those of us who have this nagging, crazy little itch on the inside...

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If Somebody Told Me to Pick a Husband at Age Twenty-Three, I’d Likely Be...

You know why we’re all unhappy and restless and jaded and depressed? LIFE IS BORING US TO TEARS. Boredom is the devil, but most people don’t realize they’re bored. They’re busy working. They’re busy...

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Don’t Cower. Don’t Make Yourself Small. Be Your Absolute Fucking Self Every...

I need to talk to you about my obsession with pearls. More specifically, I need to talk to you about HOW EVERYBODY LOOKS AT ME LIKE I AM A GIANT WEIRDO when I wear fifty strands and then wrap ’em round...

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Writing Books, Trusting The Fuck Out Of Yourself, And The Golden Penis of...

It’s Friday and I have so many things to tell you! First of all, have you ever read Caitlin Moran? Because if you haven’t, you need to. She’s funny as fuck. And she’s smart as fuck. And she’s British...

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A Wee Little Heart-to-Heart on The Fear of Being TOO. MUCH.

You know how I know when someone’s lying to themselves? *chomps peanut* The way they write. I can tell a lot about about a person by the way they write—myself included. I know there are people who are...

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